Thoughtful gifts and gesture ideas for new mums

Here’s a list of thoughtful gifts and gestures for a new mum to help make her feel special and supported!

Gifts

1. Personalized Baby Blanket: A soft, personalized blanket with the baby’s name or birthdate can be both practical and sentimental.  If you are a sewing wiz, adding this personal touch yourself can be a really special addition as well.
   
   
2. Spa Gift Set: Self-care takes a backseat with a new baby or toddler!  Gift her some beautiful time-out products like bath bombs (if she has a bath!), scented candles, or essential oils for when she does have some time to herself.  If time is the issue, could you also add on an hours babysitting so she can soak and unwind?
   
   
3. Comfortable Pajamas or Robe: Ohhhh I think  most woman love this but especially when your body has been through a recent battle!  Soft, cozy loungewear can make those days at home a lot more comfortable.
   
   
4. A 'Mum' tee-shirt or hoodie: Especially for first time mums, these are a proud expression of their new role in life!  Comfy and stylish, and easy choice for home and out.
   
   
5. Gift Box: Consider a gift box for new mums, that has a little bit of everything - self-care products, baby essentials and other cute gifts!  You can always put this together yourself and include other self-care items like a feel-good book, favourite snacks, calming herbal teas etc.
   
   
6. Customized Jewelry: A necklace or bracelet with the baby’s birthstone or initials is a really sweet and touching present.
   
   
7. Grocery delivery: Schedule a grocery delivery (by you or the supermarket) to stock up on some essentials, ready meals, nappies and wet wipes! Ensure chocolate is in there too.....
   
   
8. Gift Cards: Gift cards for local restaurants, coffee shops, takeaway outlets or online retailers can really help during those busy months of adjusting to a new routine.
   
   
9. Baby Milestone Book: A beautiful book to capture milestones, stories and things you don't want to forget as they get older!
   
   
10. Milestone cards: A visual aid for monthly photos - to show what age the baby is at.  They can then be added to the Baby Milestone Book!
    
    

Gestures

1. Offer to Help: Number one - just an offer of time!  But instead of putting it back on mum to decide what she needs, tell her what you'll do.  I'll come over and do washing, folding, cook dinner, clean the kitchen and/or watch the baby while you have a shower or bath! 
   
   
2. Prepare a Care Package: Put together a package with her favourite snacks, tea, juices or fizzy drinks or other comfort items that might help perk mum up during those tiring or hard times.
   
   
3. Home-cooked Meals: Big, easy, heat-up dinners are the best and it takes away a job for the household to think about.  Even better if there's enough for two meals - or they have room in their freezer for a stock up! Additionally, doing this each week / fortnight can be a real help as their busy time has only just begun.
   
   
4. Write a Thoughtful Card: A heartfelt letter or card expressing your support and excitement for her new journey can be very touching and a comfort for them to read when times get tough. A visual aid of your support!
   
   
5. Plan a Visit (even if Virtual): If you can’t visit in person, set up a video call to catch up and offer your support.  Sometimes just going out of your way to show interest and excitement for them really goes a long way.
   
   
6. A listening session: Sometimes, just being there (or on the phone) to listen and offer emotional support can be incredibly valuable.
   
   
7. Gift a New Mum's Survival Kit: Include practical items like a reusable water bottle, insulated coffee cup!, snacks, and personal hygiene products that are helpful during the postpartum period.
   
   
8. Arrange a Cleaning Service: A one-off house cleaning session can be a huge relief during the early days of parenthood.
   
   
9. Organize a “New Mum” Pamper Day: Arrange a day where she can enjoy some pampering, whether it’s a massage, a pedicure, or simply a day off with some peace and quiet.  If not possible without the baby, arrange it so that she has minimal disruptions if you can (can others come to help share the load??)

These gestures and gifts can help a new mum feel valued, supported, and cared for during an emotional, happy, exciting but also challenging time.